there's you and me and all of the people

When you talk to people about how they ended up with the people they did, they always say something like, "I just knew" or "there was an instant click." I envy that certainty something fierce. I can't help but wondering if that click really existed at a moment in time or is it revisionist history? The romantic in me wants to believe the click is possible, but so far, there have been no shooting stars or neon arrows pointing the right direction. Why can't there be a sign that points out very clearly: "This is where you should go, this is where you should do, this is what you should be, this is who you should love and you should never ever let go."